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My parents used to have fights like this.

He would do things to her, say horrible quiet things to her, and she would scream.

Everyone would see her screaming and assume she was the bad one, the one at fault, the aggressor, because he just sat there and took it and acted like the victim, but it was always actually him at least escalating it, if not starting it.

I finally figured it out: the loudest cat in a fight is the one whoapos;s losing.
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